Anecdotes

You never know who you will meet again: Many years ago when I was working in Northern California I met a man for the first time who would make a big alteration in my life and I had no idea at the time what was ahead for me. I was installing and testing a system at an airport that was under his purview. The test was not going well and we had a lot of problems making adjustments to try and get it to work as advertised. He felt my frustrations when I shut down the test and he expressed his. After several days of research and modifications we started the test again. This time the test revealed the reasons for the first failure. It all had to do with the type of terrain and the type of equipment we were using. I told him that the system he wanted would not work satisfactorily and it would have to be modified. He was not happy with my decision but I stuck to my guns and left it at that. I packed up my equipment, filed a report and left. I figured that I would probably never see him again anyway as at the end of this test I was heading back to Los Angeles and he was being transferred to Korea. I tried not to leave a bad taste behind. Pride and ego can get in the way of progress. His plans had to be reworked.

Several years later I applied for a promotional position in Los Angeles and was accepted. I met my new boss for the second time. Yes, it was the same man I had met who was not happy with my decision to scrap his plans. He had returned from Korea and was assigned as the head of the organization that I had applied to for a position. When I applied there was an interim manager. We had a good first day as manager and worker bee. He explained why he hired me. It all had to do with the fact that when we first met I did not waver in my analysis of the problems and provided solid backup for my decision and treated him with respect.
More years passed and on a Friday evening returning from a weeklong trip to Texas I was greeted by one of my fellow worker bees. I was surprised to see him at the airport and by the look on his face I knew there was something wrong. While I was gone our manager had died and his wife wanted me to deliver his eulogy. I asked when that was and he told me I had 4 hours. I hurried home changed clothes. Kathy and I went back to los Angeles and at the service I told the story you just read. At the end of the story I closed with:

You never know who you will meet again.

I was talking to Pat Krommer and she inspired me to tell this story to you.

Lance